Love by the Numbers

Not a Compatibility Chart

Most numerology writing about love ends at a grid: your number, their number, a score out of ten. That grid is the least interesting thing numerology has to say about a relationship, and it is the part most likely to be wrong about you specifically.

This book takes the longer route. Your life path describes how you move through a relationship. Your soul urge describes what you are actually after, which is often not what you say you want. Your personal year describes what this particular year is asking of you, which is why the same couple can be fine one year and stuck the next. Put those together and you get something more useful than a score.

What Is Inside

The five core numbers and how to work each one out by hand. What every life path combination looks like from the inside, including the ones usually written off as incompatible. Soul urge and the gap between what you want and what you ask for. Personal year cycles and why timing explains more arguments than personality does. And a chapter on what to do when the numbers say one thing and you want another.

What It Will Not Do

It will not tell you whether to stay or go. It will not predict whether someone comes back. It does not rank anybody. If a number told you to leave a relationship, that would be a reason to distrust the number, not the relationship.

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